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Wednesday, April 27, 2011

I Captured a Sign of Spring!

I was so excited to look out our living room window yesterday and see a whole flock of these beautiful Bluebirds making their way through our gully!  This picture doesn't do it justice as to how blue they really are!  So beautiful!



Oh I thought I should write on the fishing day from last week! Tom did not get any pics cuz it was kind of cloudy and rainy from what I heard. Another guy that went with did get some pics but we have yet to see them. He said that surprisingly the day was really slow, 2 other guys went with him and 1 of them got skunked! Tom caught his limit but ended up throwing one back cuz it was smaller than the other 4, significantly I would guess. And Wayne caught his limit too but it took them both all day to get their limit, that is how slow it was. He also said that there were tons of people there fishing besides them so I'm sure that contributed to the slowness.

I also sold my car exactly a week after listing it on Craigslist!  So happy about that!  It went for $450 and off to Helena!  I waived goodbye as it rode off on a trailer!

Sunday, April 24, 2011

Happy Resurrection Day!

Today celebrates the significance of victory over death available for EVERY person, both who walk on the face of the planet and who is asleep in the grave!  "It is appointed unto men once to die, but after this the judgement."- Hebrew 9:27  Why is there judgement you ask, "Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:"- Romans 5:12.  Adam and Eve made the choice to be independent of God and that choice brought death, which they had been fully warned in advance that that is indeed what would happen.  "And the LORD God commanded the man, saying, Of every tree of the garden you may freely eat:  But of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, you shall not eat of it:  for in the day that you eat of it you shall surely die."- Genesis 2:16-17  God was looking out for our best and desiring a dependent relationship with Him of us but we chose differently.  Essentially we chose death, both spiritually and physically!  Do you think your independent free spirit would have chosen differently if it had been you instead of Adam and Eve?  I don't think I would have, I would have been deceived too by Satan disguised as a serpent!  Choosing something that looked pleasing for the tummy and would "make me wise like God, knowing good and evil" twisting the truth, that it won't bring me death!

BUT God made a promise immediately, working on our behalf, because even though we chose to turn our back on Him, He was still determined to make a way for us to be with Him for eternity!  I know some of you out there don't know what to believe when it comes to death and what happens to us, let alone what to believe about this thing called eternity!  But God has written for us exactly what happens to us after death and what eternity will be like, how gracious of Him to do that for us, we could have been neglected here on Earth left with no idea of either death or life thereafter!  What is His promise you ask, "And the LORD God said to the serpent, Because you have done this, you are cursed above all cattle, and above every beast of the field; upon your belly shall you go, and dust shall you eat all the days of your life:  And I will put enmity between you and the woman, and between your seed and her Seed; it shall bruise your head, and you shall bruise His heel."- Genesis 3:14-15

I am so grateful for that promise made sooooo many years ago, so many years before Jesus even came to Earth to live the life of a Man, with the power of being God, dying the death that I deserved because of MY SIN along with the SIN OF THE WHOLE WORLD: PAST, PRESENT & FUTURE SINS, being buried in a tomb guarded with soldiers, yet He rose again & rolled away that stone that covered His tomb.  Because He was a man, He can relate to you and to me and all the temptations we are faced with every day to live a life independent of God.  But because He was God, He was PERFECT, without sin, AND He therefore defeated the power of sin and death! 

Though I have definitely made mistakes in life that I regret, I definitely think God had His Hand over my life even before I knew the meaning of the Cross and all that entailed for me.  I could have made many more mistakes in my life than I did.  I was raised in what I would call a good home, my parents worked hard for what we had and to keep their marriage together.  Praise God they are still married today!  My parents took us to church every Sunday from what I can remember and sometimes we even attended classes to learn more about the faith we were raised in but we also grew up learning and knowing the value of hard work.  Dairy farming is no walk in the park, it is day in, day out hard work and you rarely get a vacation because you don't want to leave the health and well being of your lively hood in someone elses hands because you may return to find your herd a mess physically.

For me as a child, God was real, I believed He existed somewhere out in the galaxies but we were "left" on the Earth hoping one day that somehow we would get to experience heaven!  I had heard of Jesus but He was someone hanging on a Cross and why He was there I did not know for sure.  I had heard of sin but that was something only "bad people" did, which only consisted in my mind of murder, kidnapping children and whatever else you did that constituted being put behind bars!  I only really prayed to God in heaven when I was sadly missing my first horse who had died from an accident or our first family dog that I remember who had died.  Otherwise who was God and what would He really want with me?  I had no idea.  I hated school when we moved from IL to WI and at one point in my 8th grade year I contemplated suicide because I hated school so much and the mean bullies that were there.

But when I graduated high school I completed CNA training and worked in a nursing home in WI.  I began dating this man there who worked as a Physical Therapist Asst. and he was a Christian as much as I could tell at the time.  Although we did things that two unmarried people shouldn't do because God created sex for marriage, he still showed me things about Jesus that I never knew!  Over time I became more and more aware of the problem all humanity faces: Sin, and the solution God has for our problem:  Jesus.  I had also started schooling to be a LPN and I "just happened" to have a teacher who was a Christian and two classmates who were also Christians!  And when I found myself in a hopeless spot in life I knew where to turn and that I needed to respond to what God has offered for each one of us.  So I can still remember so vividly in my bedroom in Rewey, WI when I prayed to receive Jesus as my Lord and Savior.  I was just a mere 19 years old but I had already been places in my life that I should've never been.  I immediately became so hungry for God and His Word, if you will, and I was still in the relationship with that man and I told him that "we were not having sex anymore because I read clearly in God's Word that that is not right"!  "For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that you should abstain from fornication" (sexual intercourse between a man and woman not married to each other).- I Thessalonians 4:3  I remember going to my parents and telling them the news, I was so excited, and my parents' response was, "Carrie, you are already a Christian!"  But I knew that was not right because even though America in general is considered a Christian Nation, many Americans have no idea what a born-again* Christian is or what it means to live following Christ.  And I went to my younger sister too and asked her for forgiveness of all the mean things I had ever done to her and she just kind of laughed at me as she graciously gave that forgiveness to me.  Well for the next year while I remained at home with my parents it became very difficult for us to get along, my life was changing as God desires more for us that just salvation, He desires to make us more like His Son each day we live.  And I was so excited about this change and I wanted my family to experience it too and I was trying to change them instead of letting God do it. 

So I moved to Montana where my aunt (my dad's sister) and her family live who I always knew were strong Christians because of their annual Christmas letters, yet I barely knew them.  When I called to tell her the news a year earlier about my faith in Jesus, she thought I was going to tell her I was pregnant!  But she was so happy to find out different news, Good News!  I came to visit her family for 2 weeks about a month before I moved out here to see what their family was like and I loved it and I loved their church.  I lived with them for about a year and a half and got to know my aunt and uncle and their four children in a way that I don't know any of my other relatives.  I felt like I was part of their family and they encouraged me in my relationship with God in ways my own family had no idea how or why they should even do so.

But soon enough the time came to move out on my own officially and I lived with a house of girls from my church which was such a growing experience for me!  But eventually I desired to go to school at a school that simply studied the Bible, that was my deepest desire since I first believed.  I didn't want to go get a degree to be something, I wanted to go somewhere where you were immersed and saturated with the Word of God and I heard of New Tribes Bible Institute where you could do that and it was inexpensive AND it was in WI!  By this time I had lived in Montana for four years and my younger sister was pregnant with her first child!  So it was perfect timing to move back to WI to go to school and my soon to be niece would be born just before my 2 years of school started!  New Tribes was an amazing experience for me, I wanted to be there for the purpose that the school exists:  where Bible education and missions are one, as I also have an interest in missions.

So that is my story, my testimony, of how God has worked in my life on my behalf!  How has He worked in yours?  If He hasn't, what is keeping Him from doing that, are you just living life independent of Him?  Thinking that there will not be any consequence?  Well there will be, because although God is a loving God, He is in fact the very definition of love, He is also a just God and He would not be God if He wasn't true to His Word!  Our problem:  "for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,"-Romans 3:23, that ALL includes you and me.  The solution:"For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord."-Romans 6:23  Sin earns a punishment of death!  BUT God has provided a way out of that punishment, although we all have to experience a physical death, we don't have to experience a spiritual death!  You can have eternal life in Christ AND it is free, you don't earn it by doing good merits OR so many Hail Mary's OR being a "good person" cuz America knows best about being a "good Christian".  AND it comes no other way you notice except in Christ Jesus our Lord, not your good ol granny or any other human being you look up to.  Our response:  "if you confess with your mouth Jesus as Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you shall be saved; for with the heart man believes, resulting in righteousness, and with the mouth he confesses, resulting in salvation." Romans 10:9-10

So I hope you are happy to celebrate the Resurrection of Christ because without it we would ALL be doomed for eternity in hell, where it is described as weeping and gnashing of teeth, great pain & agony for an eternity!(See Matthew 13:42) 


                                     

To read more on my testimony after Bible School and how I met my husband who is beyond anything I could have imagined for myself go here.

*born again- having received new life, or spiritual birth, a phrase used to describe someone who is a Christian, one who not only has a knowledge of Jesus Christ, BUT whose life has been changed by God.  A person is born again by the power of the Holy Spirit working through the Word of God.

Thursday, April 21, 2011

The Big Catch!

I am so excited because today Tom is on his annual Spring fishing day to never never gonna tell ya land to catch his tasty limit of 5 BIG trout!  They don't even have to wade in the waters at this place they go, they just catch them from the bank!  I have already invited my parents to join him for next year but if anyone ever wants to come to Montana for Easter and participate in this special fishing day, let me know!  Tom had started teaching a student in youth group some casting techniques for fly fishing and was hoping to take him along today because he said it is the perfect opportunity for him to know how it feels to catch them and all that jazz.  But that shows how easy it is where they go cuz the fish are spawning!  So hopefully tomorrow I will be able to post some pics.

Titus is now working on getting his 7th tooth in!  He is so sweet and handsome, that boy just melts my heart!  He has the cutest grin and giggles!  He's beginning to test his climbing abilities!  Sounds like some stories I have heard about his dad!  He loves music whether it is at church or we are listening and dancin in the living room to some of moms favorite artists.  He is finally just about over his cold, I have been bathing him every night to help him get rid of those icky germs and still drinking my 'great tasting' Emergen-C, I think I like the Raspberry flavor the best!  The nurse also suggested to make some saline solution drops for his nose which has helped a lot!  But other than that she said there isn't a whole lot to do at this age for them other than what I'm already doing.  He has been happy and playful and without fevers pretty much the whole time he has been sick.

Titus also LOVES it when mommy reads to him, each morning we read about 4 books right before he goes back down for a nap and he has become mommy's big helper and he turns the pages for me!  I LOVE IT!  So cute!  He also LOVES it when daddy practices walking with him, he likes to do that every night when daddy gets home from work.



Well here is the picture of 'our big catch' for Titus!  It is so nice and rides so smoothly!  Right now we just have the jogging kit attachment for it and Titus seems to love it so far!  Much more roomier than his regular stroller was.  This summer we want to get the cycling kit for it so that we can not only do lots of biking with him but we would love to do the Route of the Hiawatha with my family when they come to visit in July.  The adjustable suspension system for the weight of the passenger(s) is such a great feature too!  And the storage bag in the back can hold up to 8.8 lbs. which will be nice when we go to the local farmers/peoples market this summer!  We picked the 'avocado' color thinking that would best match our bikes plus they carry the red one in the store and we see that one everywhere!

Well I best be going, think I might have my car sold!  Got a response yesterday after putting it on Craiglist Saturday and she seems pretty interested after I sent her some pics!  Pray for that please!

Thursday, April 14, 2011

Car For Sale!

We are going to put an add on Craig's List too, but I thought I would start here.  I am finally selling my car that I have had since I was 17 and I have been the only owner of it, we bought it new actually on a family vacation out in good ol' Billings, Montana back then when we came to visit the Cross' that year here in Missoula!  My first trip to Montana definitely holds some good memories!

Anyway it is a 96' Chevy Cavalier 4 Door Sedan, 154K miles, 4-cyl., FWD, Automatic and features cruise control, power steering, tilt wheel, dual air bags & steel wheels for $500 obo.  It would be a project for someone to fix or for parts, otherwise I would say it is in fair condition.  Something went on the head gasket in November and we have not been driving it since and we're hoping to sell it this spring if possible.  If not we will find other means to get rid of it.

If you are interested call 406-529-6761 (my cell) or 406-214-1682 (Tom's cell).

Sunday, April 10, 2011

A Long Weekend!

Usually a long weekend is accompanied by an extra day off from work for Tom but that is not the case in this long weekend.  We are experiencing our first challenge of child sickness with Titus :(  Despite the fact that mommy not only stays home with Titus and has hesitated to even put him in the nursery at church on Sunday mornings and every time we are exposed to sickness I drink that nice Emergen-C stuff as preventative for him and I he still caught daddy's nasty cold.  I think the Emergen-C has actually worked in the past for him, even once I was sick and took it so that he would get anything beneficial from it through breast milk and he didn't get sick then.  But this cold that Tom had was nasty!  So Titus' nose had been getting a little clear drainage earlier this week and then yesterday it hit him good and he didn't nap very well yesterday and I thought he wouldn't sleep very well last night but he did okay with only some coughing really now and then.  But this morning we found a very stuffy, dried crusted, sad looking baby in his crib, which was not fun for any of us to deal with getting rid of.  Our poor baby boy has been a little bit playful as the day went on but he was very sad looking with his horrible breathing sounds and very cuddly because of it.  Which makes any parent happy to have a cuddly baby.

So please pray for him, he did get some good rest today and has been sleeping now for about 2 hours.  But as a result we stayed home today to keep our germs to ourselves and to let him rest and we sure did miss seeing lots of our friends today at church.  And we did miss the fellowship that church brings into our lives and the teaching of the Word.  I am so thankful for the church body that we have and the men that serve in our church as Pastors.

P.S. We did make our big purchase this weekend but were disappointed to find out that the 20% off coupon could not be used on strollers!  We did use it on the jogging kit for it though and we did get to use our dividend on the stroller.  So we missed out on saving $124 on it but it was a great investment for our child(ren) and that just means we get more of a dividend back on it next year!

Wednesday, April 6, 2011

Growing Boy!

So I took my sweet little man to see the pretty nurse today to see how big he is getting! He has officially outgrown his infant car seat which makes his mommy sad, that means he is that much closer to turning 1 yr. physically to me anyway! He is now 30 in. long and weighs 19 lbs. 3 1/2 oz., but what should I expect, I am 5'9" and Tom is 6'4". So now we can install his "captains chair" as I will call it, that is what it looks like straight off of Star Trek! Ha!

I am so excited though this weekend we are going to make a big purchase for Titus, he will get a Chariot Carrier Cougar 2 Stroller/Trailer Chassis, Lord willing! But it has different kits you can buy to attach to it for use also in cross country skiing, jogging and hiking! So it is like a 5-in-1 deluxe carrier! We thought it would be best to purchase the 2 passenger one because we plan on having more than 1 child sooner than later. It is $85 more and holds a 100 lb. limit rather than the 75 lb. limit of the 1 passenger Chariot. But we have our member dividend back from REI and 20% off a full price item to use this weekend so those combined alone will make purchasing it AND a kit about the same price as the Chariot Carrier 1 passenger alone! So that is awesome!

Tom has gotten a cold this week and actually stayed home from work yesterday, which takes a lot for him to stay home. But he's starting to feel better and he is making salmon tonight, mmmmm, he got some out today to thaw from his ice fishing catch this winter. So excited, he also has a break from youth group tonight because of the kids' spring break!

Titus is starting to eat peas, green beans & broccoli, he also loves his bananas with yogurt!

Well I best be going, hope you have had a wonderful God blessed day!

Monday, April 4, 2011

More $ Saving Sites!

I have loved Groupon and the great deals it has online for me to take advantage of, but unfortunately Groupon is not local for me in Missoula, the nearest town it is "local" is about 2 1/2 hrs in Coeur d'Alene, ID.  Groupon offers daily deals in many different areas of interest such as health & beauty, food & drink, retail & services, activities & events at 50-90% off!  If you are interested in seeing if Groupon is local for you please use my referral link provided, but remember if they are not, they have many great online deals too:
 http://www.groupon.com/r/uu17989517

Another site that my cousin introduced me to is Seize the Deal.  They are local in Missoula which is awesome and I am finding that most of the daily deals they offer DO NOT expire which is even better!  Seize the Deal offers dining deals, haircut coupons, spa deals, salon discounts and more also at 50-90% off!  If you are interested in seeing if Seize the Deal is local for you please use my referral link below:
 http://www.seizethedeal.com/users/new/dT3DhVaEn

One more site that I found but is also not local for me is called Living Social.  I do not use this site but they also offer daily deals up to 90% off!  They have deals also for restaurants, bars, spas, theaters and more.  They also offer ESCAPES deals for trips and getaways.  And they offer family friendly deals for you and the kids to enjoy.  You may want to check out that site and see if "Living Social" is local for you!
http://livingsocial.com/

Sunday, April 3, 2011

9 Weeks!

A much needed Starbucks date with free petite baked goods!


Thoroughly enjoyin our butternut squash!

Only 9 weeks from today will our baby boy reach his one year mark of life here with us, outside the womb!  Where has the time gone?  It seems just yesterday that I got to meet him for the first time and find out that he was indeed a Titus, as we didn't know whether he would be a boy or a girl!  He is growing so fast and learning new things everyday and each day he just gets more and more precious to us as we get to know this little boy that God so intricately created in the womb.  He has the most precious personality and the cutest little grin that his parents have ever laid eyes on!

As we begin to think about that time coming, it will be here before we know it, we are hoping to do something simple yet special for him to celebrate.  We are hoping at this point that the weather will be nice on that day, as even just today it was snowing here in good ol' Montana!  Nothing that is going to stick but none the less snowing in April!  I am thankful for it because it is one way that God provides for the grass to stay green longer before it turns burnt brown and provides no color for our great landscape here.  But others would disagree with being thankful for it at this time of year, which is okay, it isn't that I don't long myself for Spring weather to arrive since it is officially Spring.

Anyway I just wanted to share with you what I am thinking about today, soon my baby will no longer be A baby but thankfully he will always be MY baby.  Reminds me of that book that I love to read to him and cried to by the end the first time I read it to him when he was just my newborn, Love You Forever by Robert Munsch.  The song the mom would always sing to her sleeping baby boy even as he grew into a great big man was:
"I'll love you forever,
I'll like you for always,
As long as I'm living
my baby you'll be."